THE SEDUCTION OF FEAR

You're not uncertain about what you want.

You're scared of what you want.

So instead, you pretend like there's another option. But really, there isn't and you know exactly what you want.

And out of fear (that you won't get what you truly want) you create a "safer" choice.

The safer choice seems weirdly exciting.

This happens because the feeling of safety comforts you. It seems exciting to focus on a million dollars, but our bodies do not think so at all (for most individuals).

We are extremely fearful of frustration and delusion, so to aim for something "too big" is not as comforting to the nervous system as it is to aim for smaller goals (bc you know the chances of receiving it are much bigger).

The fear of not receiving what you truly want, and what that could mean to you (am I not capable of having it, is this not possible for me, etc) seduces you into thinking safer choices are better.

"I'll try that for a month then if it doesn't work I'll try that other one".

As I wrote before, everything you experience in your reality is there because you opened up to it, one way or another.

If you settle for something out of fear, you are falling into it's hypnotic hole, and becoming it's bitch.

Allow yourself to create from love and desire, not fear and doubt.