Opening up.

We often try to force ourselves to enter the "vibration" of what we desire. But the truth is, you cannot fake a state or force it. The more you try to do it, the further away from it you get. I've learned that entering the "receiving mode" means opening up to what you desire. When you open yourself up to someone's influence, they start to shape you. That's how our personalities developed. We were open to our caregivers, who then, placed their influence upon us, and so we became who we are. Opening up means simply taking it in. We can say that resistance is when you are closing yourself up to your desires. You open up when you allow for something. Just as when you eat, you chew for awhile, then you swallow it and the food becomes a part of you, shaping your body and everything else that you are. Every single one of us has choked on food before. When it 'goes down the wrong pipe' and we can't breathe properly. Honestly, we're all choking on our desires. We're not opening up properly and allowing for it to flow freely to where it needs to go, to the 'right pipe'. To open up to something, all you need to do is let it. Yeap. Just let it. Problem is that we are constantly struggling with it. Just love your desire. Just enjoy the thoughts you have about it, try to have fun with it. Don't turn it into a drag. Don't keep asking yourself or the Universe why isn't it here yet every twenty minutes. Just open up to it. Like a curious child. The energy of whatever it is that you desire, will start to shape you. Shape you into the perfect match to receive it. The same thing happens when we are manifesting a partner, or friends, or whatever. We open up to their energetic influence, and so, we start to embody what that person needs, therefore becoming magnets to them. Everything that we attract is because we became like magnets. We need a positive, a negative and a neutral energy so that the attraction can occur. By simply allowing whatever you desire to shape you, you automatically become it's opposite (complementary) polarity, therefore attracting that to you. Personally, I find unconditional love and curiosity the best ways to start opening up to something. Just love it without expectations, whatever it is. Don't resist it, don't question it or fight with it. Just allow your pure desire for it to be the base.